A Cuban TikToker residing in Mexico, known as K'rlos_fit, recently shared an almost nine-minute video on TikTok, candidly discussing the pros and cons of dating a Cuban man based on his personal experiences.
Identifying himself as a Cuban living in Mexico, the creator claims to speak with "brutal honesty" about the cultural traits he recognizes in Cuban men.
The Bold Claim: Cuban Men as Exceptional Lovers
The first and most controversial point he highlights is that "Cuban men are the best lovers in the world." He insists that no matter what people say globally, Cuban men hold this title.
K'rlos_fit attributes this reputation to the early start of intimate life on the island: "Their sexual life begins at a very young age, around twelve or thirteen, and they start exploring life's experiences," he explains. He adds that in Cuba, being a good lover was considered a form of entertainment, which is why many excel in this area.
Challenges of the Cuban Man
On the downside, K'rlos_fit acknowledges without hesitation that the average Cuban man "is not very hardworking," attributing this to the island's political-economic system. "In Cuba, the system doesn't instill a work ethic," he notes, adding that informal economies, known as "under-the-table businesses," historically replaced formal employment.
He also warns that "the Cuban man is not a great provider... not the kind of man who will buy you a house or a car," contrasting this with the model of masculinity he observes in Mexican men.
The Emotional Side: Affection and Protection
Despite these limitations, the creator highlights emotional virtues: Cuban men are, according to him, deeply affectionate and prioritize their partner's company above all. "A Cuban man won't leave his woman at home to hang out with friends," he asserts, labeling it as "nonsense" if a man chooses friends over his partner.
Another notable trait is their protective nature: "Cuban men are very protective, they fiercely protect their women," he says, describing how they react intensely if someone looks at their partner on the street. He defines them as "jealous for a reason," rather than compulsively.
In the realm of romance, he admits that Cuban men are "not very detailed," also attributing this to cultural factors: "In our culture, we are not trained to give such details."
Ongoing Debate on TikTok
K'rlos_fit's video adds to a months-long debate on TikTok among the Cuban diaspora. On May 7, creator Madame Lewis went viral for claiming that "Cuban men are no longer useful," criticizing them for becoming "princesses" without contributing economically or socially, ending with the phrase: "We might have to order men from Amazon."
Conversely, TikToker Nathyy Zaldivar Toro defended Cuban men in September 2024, asserting that "the Cuban man is the most detailed there is," while in June 2025, TikToker @lachinita.toxica made headlines with a more straightforward defense: "Cubans love Cubans. Anything else is like eating rice without salt. It fills you up, but it doesn't give you life."
The debate highlights real tensions around masculinity, economic crisis, and changing gender roles within a Cuban community that filed around 34,000 asylum applications in Mexico alone in 2025, according to the Mexican Commission for Refugee Assistance.
Frequently Asked Questions About Cuban Men's Traits
Why are Cuban men considered to be great lovers?
Cuban men are said to be exceptional lovers due to their early exposure to intimate experiences, which is culturally encouraged in Cuba. This early start is believed to contribute to their reputation.
What challenges do Cuban men face according to K'rlos_fit?
K'rlos_fit points out that many Cuban men are not very industrious, a result of the island's political-economic system that fails to encourage a strong work ethic. Additionally, they are not seen as traditional providers.
How is the emotional side of Cuban men described?
Cuban men are depicted as deeply affectionate and protective, prioritizing their partner's companionship and fiercely protecting them. However, they are not known for being particularly detail-oriented in romance.