A Cuban TikToker now living in Italy recently released a humorous video detailing the essential criteria for anyone looking to date a Cuban, and it's anything but straightforward.
Known on TikTok as @lacubanainfiltrada, the creator manages to encapsulate what it means to share your life with someone from the island in just 51 seconds: you need to know how to cook, be cheerful, have patience, and most importantly, be ready to give up peace and quiet.
The Culinary Challenge
The first requirement is culinary in nature: "You need to know how to cook, because a Cuban is always dressed to impress 24/7. Got that, honey?" The idea of the Cuban being "fachado"—always well-dressed and boasting—is one of the most celebrated stereotypes among the community abroad.
The Need for Positivity
The next point touches on personality: "You need to be a cheerful person because he will be your sunshine; you can’t be bringing him down." The creator emphasizes that a negative attitude won't fly with someone from the island. A similar sentiment was shared by a Guatemalan woman who went viral for listing reasons not to fall for a Cuban.
Living with the Cuban Spirit
The video title’s catchphrase is perhaps the most clever: "Your head can't hurt; he'll be your headache." This wordplay perfectly captures the video's tone: while a Cuban partner isn't easy, no excuses are accepted either.
The creator also warns about living arrangements: "If you're someone who doesn't like having people over, who cherishes peace and quiet, a bit selfish—why would you be with a Cuban?" The extroverted nature, full house, and constant noise are part of the deal. It’s no wonder a Puerto Rican woman admitted to being drawn to Cubans precisely for their exuberant energy.
Embracing the Cuban Lifestyle
The video concludes with a piece of advice blending cooking, dance, and identity: "Add lots of salt to your food, lots of sugar to your sweets." "Spice up your personality, dance, and enjoy life." And it finishes with a direct warning: "If you need to find a Cuban to pay for something, go find another flag." A clear reminder that, as another creator pointed out, the bar is set high for being Cuban in Europe.
Understanding Cuban Dating Culture
What are the essential traits to date a Cuban?
To date a Cuban, you need to know how to cook, maintain a cheerful attitude, be patient, and be willing to forego peace and tranquility.
Why is cooking an important skill when dating a Cuban?
Cooking is essential because a Cuban partner is always looking sharp, and they expect their partner to be able to complement this lifestyle with good food.
What personality traits are necessary for dating a Cuban?
A positive and cheerful personality is key, as a Cuban partner will be your source of joy, and negativity is not welcomed.