Latino in the U.S. Sparks Debate by Vowing Never to Do These Favors Again

A video by creator @andresal3 is going viral on TikTok, amassing thousands of reactions as he unveils the favors he has vowed never to do again while living in the United States. In a straightforward message, he declared he would rather be seen as "rude" than continue enduring unpleasant situations from helping others.

The young man detailed that he will no longer welcome anyone into his home, as such gatherings always end poorly, and he is unwilling to face any more indifference or tension. He also stated he will never again recommend anyone for a job because, in his experience, "you're the one who ends up looking bad since people today don't like to work." Another firm decision he shared is to stop lending money, whether in the U.S. or his home country, because those who borrow it often disappear and even get upset when asked to repay. Lastly, he mentioned he will no longer send items to people who want things from the U.S., as he has lost money and been mistreated by trusting others.

The video has already garnered over 15,000 likes and 1,300 comments, with users quick to react. Many supported him, stating his words are entirely true and that they have experienced similar situations. One person wrote they would never again host anyone in their home because "those favors end up being costly, and no one appreciates them." Another commented they would never lend money again, especially to family, because "they get offended if you ask for repayment and might even stop speaking to you."

However, some critics pointed out that when he first arrived in the U.S., someone probably lent him a helping hand. Some comments were straightforward: "And when you first arrived? Did no one help you?" Others noted that migrants often forget that they, too, needed favors at some point in the past.

Among the comments, there were also confessions of awkward experiences. One user shared that after hosting her niece, the niece ended up involved with her partner. Another confessed that after lending money to a family member, the person never repaid her and even insulted her. Someone else mentioned they would never again co-sign for an apartment lease due to the massive issues they encountered.

Clearly, the video has sparked a discussion about favors and the negative experiences many have had when helping others. Most users shared personal stories and agreed that it's best to learn from past mistakes and avoid such situations in the future. Now, the question is out there: What favors are you no longer willing to do?