The TikToker Valentina in USA (@valentinaen_usa) has sparked a heated discussion online by posing a question that resonates with many Latinos today: "Why are so many people returning to their home countries? Is the American dream overrated?" While applying her makeup, Valentina delves into stories suggesting that the "American dream" may no longer hold the same appeal it once did.
Valentina reminisces about the so-called "golden years" of the United States during the eighties, nineties, and even the early 2000s, when finding work was easier, wages were sufficient, and there was often extra money to send back to family. However, she points out that those days seem to be over, and she believes the true essence of life might be found elsewhere. "No amount of money can buy back the moments you miss with loved ones," she asserts.
Adapting to Life in the U.S.
The content creator also stresses that life in the U.S. demands significant patience and that adjusting to the work culture and rules of a different country "is not for everyone." She suggests that today's society places greater emphasis on mental health, family, and happiness, which could explain why many choose to return home to be near their families.
Comments on her video reflect a wide range of experiences. Some still view the United States as the land of opportunity, while others prioritize being close to family. One user shares that the U.S. is indeed a place of opportunity, as her cleaning business has provided her with stability. Another comments, "Starting from scratch is tough, but people come here expecting to have everything immediately and are mistaken." Many echo Valentina's sentiments, highlighting the importance of time spent with family, as "money will never compensate for time, health, and life itself."
Realities vs. Expectations
Others argue that the issue lies not with the U.S. but with the unrealistic expectations many have before immigrating. "People are filled with fantasies, and when they arrive, they're hit with reality," one user remarks. It's noted that migrating demands considerable mental strength, and "not everyone is prepared to be away from family." One user succinctly captures this sentiment: "Even if the cage is made of gold, it's still a cage."
For Valentina and many others on TikTok, the conversation remains open. Is the American dream a realistic goal or an outdated illusion? As she suggests, each person must navigate their journey and determine what is best for their life.