Cuban influencer Flor de Cuba has taken a bold stand in a viral TikTok video, championing the cause of authentic beauty while addressing the societal pressures women face globally regarding their bodies and physical appearance. In this candid video, she challenges beauty stereotypes and the unrealistic expectations placed on women, particularly mothers.
"They want us to have children, but without showing any signs of it," Flor de Cuba asserts, highlighting the paradox of congratulating mothers only when there are no visible changes to their bodies post-pregnancy. She openly discusses the pressure to undergo cosmetic surgery, specifically mentioning suggestions she has received to alter her nose. "I am not ashamed to say my grandfather was Angolan. Why would I erase the one feature that connects me to my heritage?" she questions.
Flor confidently states, "Yes, I've had stretch marks since I was 12. Plus, I've had two children, and my body has changed." She reflects on the double standard where influencers are expected to showcase a "real" image yet face backlash for their imperfections. "How can you accept yourself if you demand perfection from other women?" she questions, condemning the criticisms and the misleading portrayals often seen on social media.
She emphasizes, "On social media, photos are edited, and videos are shot from the best angles. Don't believe everything you see. We all have flaws and challenges," she concludes. The video, shared and commented on by thousands, has sparked a much-needed conversation about authenticity in the digital age.